Having a relationship with a younger man

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There Are A Wealth Of Great Reasons To Give It A Try ... Plus A Few Downsides You Should Consider. Here Are The Pros And Cons Of Giving Younger Men A Chance.

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5 Amazing Perks Of Dating Younger Men (Plus, 5 Reasons It Sucks) Everyone knows that older men love dating younger women (and many of my female coaching clients complain about this). But in recent years, the tables turned and now many women are dating younger men. Naturally there are wonderful things about being romanced by someone younger, as well as a number of challenges. A lot depends on the age difference between you and how much younger you're talking about. The Pros: Youthful Enthusiasm. Sometimes as you age, you feel like you've already been there, done that, got the T-shirt". When you repeat those same experiences again with a younger guy going through them for the first time, you benefit from his enthusiasm. You feel young again, which is one of the biggest reasons for dating younger. Refreshing Perspective. As you move through life, you develop belief systems based on your experiences. Sometimes they limit your point of view without you realizing it. When you spend time with someone younger, you gain access to his fresh perspective. He opens your eyes to seeing things in a new light in ways that inspire and energize you. A youthful outlook is very refreshing! Bedroom Stamina. Men's sex drive tends to decrease around the age that a woman's peak. With a younger man, you can enjoy his resilience, stronger libido and maybe find a better bedroom match. One of my clients, Linda, is dating a man 15 years her junior and they've had some rather exciting trysts. Their invigorating sexual bond has kept them happily together for more than eight years now. Not Stuck in His Ways. As you age, you get into habits and sometimes ruts. Often people get stuck in their ways regarding how they do things and what they are willing to try. With a younger man, his habits are not as firmly entrenched which makes it easier to negotiate your relationship. Things like what time you eat meals or go to sleep at night, where you vacation and the type of activities you enjoy together. Many of my dating coaching clients complain about how men their own age are very rigid about how they live their lives. They tend to say "No" more often than "Yes" to trying something new. Youth offers more flexibility, giving you greater options to explore together. My client, Jane, found that spending time with her younger lover helped her tap back into her own youthful exuberance. She opened up to activities with him that she hadn't done in years like horseback riding, hiking and cross-country skiing and reported how much fun it was! In many ways, dating him was like revisiting her own youth and she smiled a lot more as a result. The Cons: Generation Gap. If you are dating a man who is five years younger, that's not such a big deal. But when the age span stretches to 10, 15 or 20 years, significant differences emerge. Just think about how he won't know the music, TV or movies you grew up with. He won't have the first-hand experience of the times and history you lived through. I'm talking about the Kennedy assassination, the movie "Jaws" premiering, The Brady Bunch, and the first time the Beatles were on the Ed Sullivan Show. These iconic moments in history and entertainment have great meaning for some. Every age group has their own memories. Not sharing the same frame of reference isn't a problem for every couple in love, but it is for some. A lot depends on how much you draw upon these experiences in the present and how knowledgeable your date is of the past. I know couples who had trouble relating to each other outside the bedroom due to the generation gap and it caused them to part ways. Only you can decide how important it is to have shared history. If you are looking for an equal and expect a man to pay half for everything, dating down might not the right choice for you.













Having a relationship with a younger man